When you travel in an aeroplane and an serious event occurs - the oxygen masks drop from the ceiling and you're travelling with an infant, make sure that you put your mask on first and THEN secure a mask on your child.
Just think about that for a moment. - you have to look after yourself first before you can help anyone else out.
Yet in life most people will do the total opposite. They become victims or doormats and think that this is somehow
advancing us forward to creating financial wealth.
So begin to put yourself first, take some time out and give to yourself first... In a spiritual sense, look after yourself first. It is not really being selfish - as when you give to yourself first, then you will have more to give to others - in fact this is the opposite of being selfish.
Make yourself strong financially and you can help not just one person, but an unlimited number of people.
They would never have been in this position if 25 years ago they chose to give away their time to help people and not focus on themselves and create wealth.
All successful investors understand the relationship of spiritual values and the pursuit of financial prosperity.
The further they progress, the more generous they tend to be with money, time and financial wisdom.
We are not born with a script for our life entitled "your perfect life"
Life is not a straight line.
The quality of our life is determined by how we choose to handle our life in each moment. You have the power decide how you make your life
I was reading "The Four Main Causes of Negative Emotions - Excerpt 3" by Robert Kiyosaki (you can get access to this by signing up online for free at - http://conspiracyoftherich.com/)
Most people do not care about you or your problems.
Most people thing more about what's their next meal or what they are doing on the weekend then about you
If you tell 10 people about your problems - 7 will not care and the other 3 will be glad you have a problem!
The Solution is:
If you feel any kind of lack in your life - Give what you want.
e.g.
give a smile to receive a smile
give recognition to others to receive it
give money away, donations to charity - if you want to receive money
hug people to receive more hugs
Give Love to receive love
or on the other side - throw a punch to receive one!
all of these make sense to me, I have herd it before.
However, I was just thinking about this as many authors/speakers have also give this advice - to give where you feel lack. But, I wonder if - "Give your time to others to receive more time" - if that is also true?
Most people only focus on one of these and less on the next and very little on the last.
The 6 Human Needs:
Certainty - stability, safety, comfort
Variety - Stimulus & change
Significance - special and worthy of attention
Connection & Love - connection with others & ultimately to love and be loved
Growth - develop and expand
Contribution - give beyond yourself
The metaphor of "baggage" is used to symbolise a problem.
Tony uses metaphors & symbols to transform
...what if you put the bag down,
put it in a rocket and shot it into the sun
what happens now when you walk outside?
Your subconscious mind is the most powerful one of all.
The brain responds to symbols or metaphors more powerfully then anything else.
what's more powerful - "Nazi" or
Christ or
We feel in our bodies whatever we represent in out brain.
Pain is when your life conditions don't match your model of the world. But suffering comes when your life conditions don't match your model of the world and you feel powerless to change it.
Pain IS inevitable - it is apart of life!
Suffering is not, it is optional - you can always do something to change the pain.
I am more then enough, I was put here at this time, for this reason - even though it does not look magical or the way I think it should be, if I can't change the environment then i've got to change my model of the world.
Use that pain as drive to give more to those you love.
We are all here for a reason and a purpose and it serves us (and its our job) to find the empowering meaning of why we are here. If you find that life is magical, suffering stops.
Remember - Pain is a part of life - it is a good thing
pain opens up a well - your job is to find out what are you going to fill it up with.
Love or Fear?
Pain can result in resentment and anger or it can bring out strength love and spiritual fulfilment
suck it up and get out of the suffering, stop feeling sorry for yourself and step up and do what's necessary now – so that the gifts that god has given you show the f**k up.
God wouldn't give you the challenge if you weren't strong enough to make it happen
sometimes its useful to be dyslexic
who knows what's going to happen tomorrow – you don't have a clue – life can change in a split second. Everything you think is so important can change in a heartbeat
so maybe you have to give what's everlasting which is love
Love is about giving, not about getting
men want to make women happy
a women's smile is the most sexy thing
she wants you to understand, appreciate
women's energy takes little shit and makes it as big as possible
men take big shit and make is as small as possible
women expect a man to know everything she is thinking
men think – i'm not a mind reader
if you ask a man if he needs help with that and he says no, then he means no.
if you ask a woman if she needs help with that and she says no, she means Yes you stupid f**k
and if you say oh she said know and go off
then she will think – he doesn't give a f**k about me
a man's job is to be a detective, woman are always leaving clues
when you feel out of control you go into “the crazy eight”
sad, depressed, lonely, not understood
frustration, anger, resentment, rage
people that value love and connection most tend to go to sadness first
ask yourself – when you feel like things are out of control, which side of the “crazy 8” do you go to first?
Most people exit by “going down” distracting themselves
exit by going up – change your model of the world
women speak in riddles
women never mean what they are saying
the story may change but the core is the same. Listen for the deeper piece.
Be a Sherlock Holmes
Every women deserves a man that will search and find. Nothing lights her up more then a man that will stick with it.
Men love a challenge, to break through, to figure it out
If you were as committed to figuring out a women as you were to that electronic deviceimagine what your life would be like.
Shift your focus and shift your life – make your woman a larger sphere
Once you get clear, you will put a plan together. You will need to get deep.
You are where you are, because of the reason why.
Look at what it is you are doing and why.
Most people live their lives based on a "perceived' vision.
If you want to change:
find what is your motivation, why are you doing this? discovering the WHY is what will motivate you.
e.g. If you want to write a book, "just to be an author" - you will NOT be motivated.
But, if you write a book because you want to help people then that is your why - That is your Motivation!
Getting in shape just to "make you happy", or "to attract someone" - are they really motivating????
You need to ask the questions:
Am I Motivated? - What is the reason, what is the WHY?
Wanting more money is not enough!!! - It is not defined, it is not motivating.
Ask:
Why am I doing the things I'm doing?
write them down in a journal - get them out of your head on on paper - confront them, see them in the flesh.
ask:
How am I going to get a Bigger Why?
You have to get a gigantic reason
you have to Dig Deep.
the reason you are going to do x is because of ........?
If you cant quit a bad habit - you don't have a big enough why.
if you are not accomplishing what you want - you do not have a big enough why.
The universe will throw motivation at you all the time.
If you can find the reason why - the universe will throw something at you.
The reason why you do these 'things' is because of the reason why.
Questions to ask yourself:
Why are you doing the things you are doing?
why do you want to bring the things into your life that you want to bring?
are they shallow reasons?
or are they deep reasons - are they enough to motivate you
if not then change your Why and take control of it - before the universe does! - before the universe brings in a why for you.
We are finding the why the deeper purpose of what your doing.
Find the deeper purpose of what you are doing every day.
Example
I used to get up at 6am.
now i have been hitting the "snooze" button and getting up at 7 or sometimes even later.
Why? - What is the reason?
I am hitting the snooze button from 6am until about 7am that's about 6 times each morning - why would i do this?
* every time I hit that snooze button - i am not getting anymore quality sleep.
Why am i hitting the snooze button?
don't want to get up - no compelling reason
staying up late each night - seem to get things done at night
no reson to get up early
only getting up to get ready for work - to work for someone else
no longer doing morning "boot camps" or gym sessions
no project to work
Change your reason why, Change your Reason
I want to get up early so that I get to do:
work on myself
meditation
gym sessions
plan my life
find myself
work on my business'
become an entrepreneur
become who I am meant to be
morning stretch sessions
listen to uplifting music, motivation, self development audio
give myself 'my time' every morning to focus on me
do yoga
These changes occur over a lifetime - it is a continental process of continual improvement.
We are writing a story each and every day.
I received an email from Loral Langemeier's - Live out loud
In this video you’ll find that I’m very candid with you. If you want to make more money, there is work involved. If you’re only interested in “get rich quick schemes” you might as well close your browser window right now. I’m going to talk to you about what will help you and what won’t help you at all.
Here are the concerns so many of you have expressed:
No startup or investment capital
No experience
No time
No money to pay for the team that you (I) always talk about
The biggest obstacle was the lack of capital. Let me tell you, that’s no reason to hold yourself back. I’ve started multi-million dollar businesses with zero dollars! You can too.
Whats your story?
don't have any capital, experience, time, money to pay for the team
when you get a team you can get your time back
go through an analyse your story
Loral's story for a long time was:
you have to work really hard for money
don't ask for it because we cant afford it
we all have a story, what do you believe
The Law of Attraction in ACTION
I want more money > I am going to do the right things at the right time and i'm going to active my life in a way with the right people around me. Then its going to start coming in.
There are loads of cash "sitting at your feet"
Industrial Age Model - get a job for 30 yrs, do your job and you will be looked after when u retire.
What choices are you making to put more cash in your pocket?
with every crisis comes an extraordinary opportunity
budgets are like diets, restrictive focusing on lack. yes you need to monitor your spending and plan it.
Living a wealthy psychology
"if i want something, i am going to create the cash to get it"
get a bunch of team mates that are smart and have expertise in this area. start saying yes to everything you want in your life and then figure out how to get it. -most people think about how to get it, but not saying YES to a thing! - that lack of commitment is not getting you anywhere. The mentality of "live debt free, live in a restricted life" - does NOT WORK - its a very old psychology/methodology.
Loral's methodology is: if you want a bigger life we are going to create one.
as you make money - put some money back into your cash machine put some back into investments (share, business, franchises, real estate) - don't just "park and hold" get compounding to work for you
expanding, creating, generating
How are you going to do this?
be committed, say YES
Figuring out how - someone has already dont it!
u are already being paid to do something
This isn't about casually doing it, this is about saying I DESERVE IT, I WANT IT and NOW is the greatest time.
Start by doing something that doesn't require you to learn anything new.
I was listening to morning coach - 704 Money & Focus
Get Clarity
What is my Lifestyle ----- my schedule revolves around ....?
Figuring out that clarity of lifestyle.
Thought are things, but beliefs will make them so.
Have not manifested the money of things that I want because I don't really know what I really want.
Get a game plan together - without clarity you won't have focus!
What is my next experience going to be?
- continue your experience, write your story.
Have a plan - what are you going to use the money for?
what will you do with it?
how much do you need?
Train for function, don't train for the mirror.
train for the function, the activity, explosiveness
you will look in the mirror one day and say "wow"
it is the same thing for life
if we are continuously focusing on the money and not focusing on the day to day activities then we are never satisfied
we never get that chance to look in the mirror
You will never be satisfied if you are just trying to look better in the mirror.
If you continue to focus solely on the outcome - then we will never be satisfied - we will always want more.
Get the Outcome - put it out there! visulise it, go after it
But DON'T look at the outcome.
Look at the steps - Focus on the things that will take you there.
Have a "sacred 6"
only keep 6 projects open at one time.
What is it that you want to bring in your life?
Think and meditate about it.
How much money do you need? monthly, weekly, daily? - Thats really going to make a difference in your life.
Get focused on it and get a game plan.
The pick the 6 things that you are going to do - then focus on the execution of those - not on the outcome, focus on the execution and just watch what happens...
Wow the countdown is finished!
I am officially unemployed! scary stuff lol
I actually finished up a week earlier then scheduled too. Will post about it soon.
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